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I Don't Like Being Photographed

How to Have Beautiful Wedding Photos

Hey there, lovebirds! Weddings are all about celebrating your love, but for those of you who feel camera-shy, the thought of posing for endless photos can be daunting. But fear not! By building trust and open communication with your wedding photographer, even the most reserved individuals can have jaw-dropping portraits that capture their authentic selves.

Building Trust and Communication

It's crucial to find a photographer who truly listens and values your input. Look for someone who creates a safe space where you can express your style and vision. You want someone who understands and respects your preferences, making you feel comfortable and at ease.

Alternative Approaches: Say Hello to Documentary Photography!

If the idea of striking poses makes you cringe, documentary photography is your new best friend. It's all about capturing genuine, spontaneous moments without any forced posing. You can relax and be yourselves, allowing the photographer to document the natural flow of your special day.


Relax and Let Your Love Shine

When you establish a great rapport with your photographer, the camera will become your BFF. As they point their lenses at you, the trust you've built will help you relax and be fully present. This allows them to capture genuine emotions and candid moments, resulting in breathtaking and authentic portraits.

Bridal Party and Family on the same page

Make sure to have a chat with your fam and bridal party about trusting your photographer. You've been the one who met them, so they might be unfamiliar to everyone else. Let your peeps know that you totally trust their guidance and that it's a safe space for everyone. This day is super special, and you deserve nothing but the best. Surround yourself with folks who appreciate you, your love story, and who will have a blast celebrating with you and your love. You've got this!

EXTRA TIP Talk, talk talk, Ask questions:

Remember, even with documentary photography, establishing a good connection with your photographer is key. Let them know about any concerns or insecurities you may have. I always suggest alternative ideas or settings that will put you at ease. Trust me, when you're comfortable and enjoying the moment, the photos will radiate love and joy. Tell me everything!!!

So, all you shy sweethearts out there, don't let the fear of cameras dampen your wedding day. Find a photographer who listens and communicates openly, creating a relaxed atmosphere where you can be yourselves. Whether you choose documentary-style photos or explore alternative poses, remember that your wedding day is about celebrating your love. Let your portraits reflect the joy, happiness, and unique connection you share. Trust your photographer, be yourself, and get ready for a stunning visual journey of your love story!

Send this to a bride/bridesmaid/groom/MOH, moms and dads, that may have had a little fear of being photographed, and have your special day, stress-free.